Author Archives: deconstructingdoctor
Doc-cupation
How many times over the years have I thought about doing something else? I don’t know, maybe a hundred times. A thousand. Usually it’s when I feel overwhelmed. Too many patients. Too much time away from home. Too many phone … Continue reading →
The Art of the Hug
I have had a lot of hugs lately. Mostly I like hugs. I like short hugs, long hugs, all kinds of hugs. It’s nice. I have had a lot of hugs lately, not because of anything I’ve done, but because … Continue reading →
Men-tor
When you are a female in a male-dominated field, you tend to have a lot of male mentors. As I look back on my career and my education, I can only remember one true asshole that I encountered. The rest … Continue reading →
Brain-Eating Amoebas
I live in an area where “Lake Life” is a thing. I don’t really get it. You see, I grew up with the ocean practically in my backyard, a mere bike ride away. The ocean dwarfs any other body of … Continue reading →
Pet Peeves
Kind of like the pet rock, except even more annoying. My daughter loves to collect rocks that she calls her “pets” and then hands them to me to keep in my pockets. By the end of the day, I have … Continue reading →
Rough Edges
I imagine myself coming into this world, my soul kind of resembling a rock, heavy and complete with all those rough jagged edges. Probably not a comfortable thought for my dear mom pushing me into the world, but alas I … Continue reading →
Doctorsplaining
Doctor-splain-ing (verb) The way a doctor explains medical issues to a patient in a manner that is considered condescending or patronizing Doctor: Ms. Doe, you have diabetes. What that means is that you have too much sugar … Continue reading →
Compassion Fatigue
Anyone in the medical field knows a little something about this one. Likewise anyone who is a first responder, a police officer, a therapist, social worker, teacher, caretaker, a parent, pretty much anyone who works with people in general, or … Continue reading →
Male-ennium
My partner and I had a meeting yesterday -with the CEO of the hospital. He came to our office, had lunch catered, and just wanted to shoot the shit. Of course there were ulterior motives. I’ve been in this area … Continue reading →
Apples Can’t Keep Me Away
I can’t hate apples no matter what they say they do to doctors, you know, like keep them away. I love them. I love them even more now that they come precut in bags so all I have to do is … Continue reading →


